I recently took part in a woman's forum meeting at work. The issue that was mostly discussed was men staring at women for their looks, their clothes etc etc etc.
I don't know how long it will take women to realize that when we dress up all glam, we are surely going to get some "appreciative" glances every now and then. Making a fuss about it is a waste of time! You could do that when you want to show off that you are getting some attention.
Women dress up, and men get attracted. Thats basic human nature. The animal instinct. You shouldn't be complaining about it!
The pervs do the wolf whistles and stuff to get attention. You should not react to them, react as in get angry, flirty, upset, happy, everything counts. That means that they win! This is one valuable lesson to remember: learn to ignore.
Nothing can rebuff them like being ignored.
I don't know how many ladies are going to get upset about this post, and I frankly think I am right.
If you do not have enough attitude to ignore their attention, stop wearing those kinda clothes and stop fretting about it! You and I and everybody else knows thats what happens when you dress up (down)!
Just be happy that you know your dress is good and you look good. (but with some toned down attitude okay? we dont want the men/women to be complaining about our headstrong attitude with only a few days past women's day, do we?)
P.S: One interesting outcome of the meeting was that, I confirmed my doubts about men gossiping about girls. They gossip just like how we do. But I only guess thats even worse.